06/01/2026
Good morning. My last day off from the mail trail. That's sunset on the waters of Spring Lake last evening. Sophia took the picture. She's 13 now.
We didn't do any fishing. Just seeing how the boat ran after sitting in the garage all winter.
Today is our wedding anniversary. We've been married for 19 years. Prior to that was a 5 year trial run. That makes 24 in total.
Waiting for me at my second to last box in Earl Saturday afternoon was a dressed up elderly woman. She had on a bright pink blouse, pink transparent sunglasses maybe bought at Dollar General, and a pair dangling red beaded earrings hanging from her esrs..
I noticed there some handwritten cards in colorful envelopes to deliver to her. She doesn't get much mail. I assumed it was her birthday.
She confirmed it was after I asked her. She makes me smile every time I see her. The sunglasses did it this time. I told her I liked them and was looking good. She smiled and said thank you maybe a bit flattered.
She's always interested me. I always wondered how long she lived in Earl. So I asked her. 39 years! She said. I asked where she lived prior.
"Arizona. I got divorced and moved back here after my 16 year old daughter was killed by a drunk driver. Then I got hooked up with a guy here in Earl and we lived together for close to 40 years, until he died. We never married. We got along great. And figured we didn't need a piece of paper to prove it!"
I eventually had to cut the conversation short. Told her my scanner lets the office know I am sitting still. She was aghast!
"You mean to tell me Big Brother is watching you! Throw that thing in the ditch!"
"They wouldn't like that," I said after a laugh.
And I was on my way back to Spooner.
Back to my marriage. 24'years feel like a long time on one hand, on the other it doesn't. 24 years! Where did it go!?! Raising kids and paying for property and place is where it went Sacrifice.
Time to end this. I am thankful to be sitting at the kitchen table typing this in the house Annie and I built together out of cordwood and mortar. And now Bean Brook Nursery in the front yard. We've carved ourselves out a pretty unique life. Looking forward to what the future brings.
Hope you have a great day!