08/20/2026
Six years in business and apparently I’m having my Rodney Dangerfield moment: “I don’t get no respect!”. 😉
I stopped by one of our lenders to drop off some documents. This company has been incredibly good to AFineLine Striping Services, and I genuinely credit their willingness to provide financing with helping us navigate some very lean seasons. I am grateful for the relationship.
While I was there, a gentleman who has seen me many times asked:
“So, do you usually work out of your husband’s office?”
Bless his heart. 😂
For context, in six years of doing business with this company, they have never once spoken to my husband.
My husband has absolutely supported this business and has been actively involved at different times. In fact, I gifted him a small ownership interest because I valued that commitment and support.
But AFineLine is my company.
And I have to admit, when I heard the question, my heart sank a little.
Not because I believe there was any ill intent behind it. I don't.
It sank because after six years of working incredibly hard to build credibility in an industry where credibility doesn't come easily, there are still moments when I realize that someone can look at me and automatically assume there must be a man somewhere who is really running things.
Apparently, I have been working out of my husband's imaginary office this whole time. I would like to know where it is because I hope it has better snacks. 😂
Beneath the humor is something worth talking about.
Sometimes the assumptions we make about business owners are so deeply ingrained that we don't even realize we're making them. And sometimes a seemingly innocent question reminds someone else just how hard they have worked to be seen as the person actually sitting in the chair.
So, just for the record:
Six years in.
Still learning.
Still building.
Still making mistakes.
Still signing the checks.
Still carrying the risk.
Still showing up.
And yes…still the owner.
Now, if somebody can point me toward my husband's office, I have a few invoices I'd like to leave on his desk. 😂