06/18/2026
I'm learning to recognize what needs action and what can wait. Most days, anyway.
Not because it's obvious. Because of what trying to do anything while watching my kids has taught me.
Most mornings start with coffee, tea, or a Celsius, depending on the day. That's also when I go over the plan for everything ahead.
Except I never know how long that window actually is. Could be an hour. Could be zero, if they're up the same time I am.
The rest of the day is the routine, hopefully. Breakfast. Finding clothes. Neglecting to style Mina's hair... I leave that one to Mandi. She would never skip that, but I get the pass if she's left the house already 🤫
Today she was home though... so I had assistance with style alongside some resistance to our escape.
Then whatever outing we've got going. Naps might happen after. Or they might not.
Eventually Mandi's home, we switch off, and I get my own time. Same deal, though... I never really know how much of it I'll have either.
Karate taught me something about all this. Awareness and timing are everything. I can't just go in with a plan of attack. I have to stay present enough to act and react based on what's actually going on, with whatever actually fits the moment.
Same thing applies whether I've got an hour with the kids or an hour without them. I try to read the window, figure out what needs action, and trust the rest can wait. Then hope I don't get sidetracked with other productive things that aren't as important lol.
This post is a pretty good example. I sat down with it a dozen times today. Sometimes I'd get a sentence in. Sometimes the second I sat down, someone needed me... or just noticed I was sitting down. In between, there was food, dishes, whatever needed handling next.
Either way… I got to what need action the most. Just not in the order, or the time, I thought I would.