09/25/2026
I’ve only provided wedding florals for a handful of weddings, so when my daughter-in-law asked me to design her florals, I was immediately excited and equally nervous. I mean, it’s a bigger deal than usual when it’s family, right?!?!
For her and my son’s wedding, I designed the bridal bouquet, eight bridesmaid bouquets, eleven pocket squares for the groomsmen and fathers, two boutonnieres for the ushers, and four wrist corsages for the moms and grandmothers.
In a concerted effort, her mom, sister, and aunts designed the florals for the ceremony and reception, so I did not have that additional task. One of the things that meant the most to me throughout the entire wedding process was seeing both sides of the family work together and contribute in such meaningful ways. It truly felt like a team effort from beginning to end.
I feel like every bridal bouquet I design, I like better than the last. Perhaps my technique is improving, or perhaps I’m just becoming more comfortable with the process. But maybe this one is my favorite simply because it was so personal. I’ll have a hard time topping this one. I was striving for a garden-esque feel since she was getting married in a field under an oak tree, and I’m happy to say I think I pulled it off.
The wedding destination was three-plus hours away, so there were a lot of logistics that came into play. I intend to write a full blog post on the ins and outs of traveling with flowers for a destination wedding when I have time. (Because apparently, getting the flowers there was its own adventure.)
And somewhere in the middle of all of that—growing some of the flowers, designing the flowers, packing the flowers, traveling with the flowers, and watching my son get married—I realized this wasn’t just another wedding I was designing flowers for.
It was his wedding.
And hers.
And somehow, I got to be a very small part of making it beautiful.
I’m still processing that part.