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24/08/2026

We just found a hidden nest full of eggs! 😂🥚 Now we can’t decide how to use them all up — pickled eggs or soy-marinated eggs?!

What would you do? 👀

Let me know in the comments below! 👇🏽

Ruakai ki Chile 🇨🇱 Pt. 4 📸
14/08/2026

Ruakai ki Chile 🇨🇱
Pt. 4 📸

Ruakai ki Chile 🇨🇱 Pt.3 📸
14/08/2026

Ruakai ki Chile 🇨🇱
Pt.3 📸

Ruakai ki Chile 🇨🇱 Pt.2 📸
14/08/2026

Ruakai ki Chile 🇨🇱
Pt.2 📸

Ruakai ki Chile 🇨🇱 Pt.1 📸
14/08/2026

Ruakai ki Chile 🇨🇱
Pt.1 📸

Pinch me now because I'm still dreaming!!No rest for the wicked around here! 😂So, in true Turu fashion, one night after ...
27/07/2026

Pinch me now because I'm still dreaming!!

No rest for the wicked around here! 😂

So, in true Turu fashion, one night after a few winos I had the completely unhinged idea to email the Kiingitanga (and specifically addressed it to Ariki Nui, Ngawai Hono i te Pō) expressing my concerns about how funding is being used in kaupapa taiao. I talked about how so much money goes into projects that, in some cases, don't produce tangible outcomes that actually benefit our people.

I literally ended the email with, "If you'd ever like to catch up over a wineanga, let me know!" 😭🤣🤣🤣 Liquid confidence really got me!

To be honest, I wasn't expecting a reply. It wouldn't be the first time I've emailed someone with my concerns and didn't receive a reply, and it probably won't be the last. 😂

But not only did I get a reply... while I was in Chile, I received an invitation from the Kiingitanga to attend the Ruku ki Taiau – Living with Nature Wānanga here in Kāwhia.

Keeping in mind I'd literally only just got home after being away from Jake and the kids for a month. I'm so lucky to have such a supportive partner who... rolled his eyes, but didn't stop me. 🥹🤌

Whānau... it was honestly one of the most productive hui I've ever been part of. I was incredibly humbled and privileged to be there representing Ngāti Porou. To be trusted with carrying the whakaaro of our people into that room is something I don't take lightly.

Walking into that room, I genuinely felt like a little sardine surrounded by taiao sharks. 🤣 There were people from all over the motu doing incredible mahi. People who willingly give up their own time to get their hands dirty, not just talking about the problems, but actively looking for solutions to the incredibly complex challenge of regenerating our taiao.

The biggest kaupapa I wanted to bring into that room was our people.

To me, the health of the land is simply an expression of the health of our people. We can't expect to heal our taiao if we're not also willing to heal the everyday struggles our people are carrying. It can't just become "us" and "them".

I'm talking about our whānau living in poverty. Our whānau battling addiction. Our whānau who are judged, overlooked and treated like castaways.

When Cyclone Gabrielle hit and food security went out the window, it wasn't scientists or CEOs people turned to.

It was those very whānau.

It was my cousins, my aunties and my uncles. The hunters. The divers. The fishers. The ones who know where and when the tuna are running, where the pigs nad deer are, how to stretch a feed to feed twenty people. The ones who live this reality every single day, not just when disaster strikes.

If anyone knows resilience... it's them.

You don't have to agree with me, but when people were hungry, they didn't line up outside research institutes or industry headquarters. Outside of the incredible work our Civil Defence teams did (and they deserve every bit of recognition they get), people turned to those who have always known how to make something out of nothing.

Later in the day we were asked who we think can carry these kaupapa forward. Straight away I thought about all of our hardworking whānau already out there on the land. Our forestry workers. Orchard workers. Shearers. Fencers. Farmers. Fisheries workers. Truck drivers. Builders. Cleaners. Freezing workers. Roading crews. Drainlayers. Conservation workers. The people doing physically and mentally demanding mahi every single day.

A lot of those industries are extractive by nature... but the people doing that mahi are absolute powerhouses.

So imagine if we invested in them.

Imagine if we created meaningful work that restored our whenua while putting kai on the table. Mahi where our people could use the skills they already have to regenerate our rivers, replant our ngahere, restore wetlands, grow food, harvest seed, protect biodiversity and strengthen food sovereignty.

Imagine if healing our taiao also meant healing our communities. To me, that's what real regeneration looks like.

Not choosing between people or the environment, but choosing both. Because if we get our people right... they'll get the whenua right.

Ngā mihi nui to the Kiingitanga for creating a space where hard conversations could happen respectfully. I left feeling challenged, inspired, and even more convinced that the answers we keep searching for are already sitting within our own communities.

Now... who's keen for an actual wineanga? 🍷😂

Kia ora te whānau!! Well, I’ve officially been back in the country for 10 days. Just my luck, I went the whole month ove...
22/07/2026

Kia ora te whānau!! Well, I’ve officially been back in the country for 10 days. Just my luck, I went the whole month overseas sweet as, then as soon as I got home I caught the meanest flu 😂 It took me out for three or four days, so I’ve been keeping things pretty low-key since getting back. Poor ole Jake thought he was getting a break, just ended up having to look after all 4 of us 😅

Arohamai that I haven’t posted many photos either!! My laptop reached full memory capacity after the first week’s worth of videos and photos, so prepare yourselves for a massive photo dump coming soon 😂

After our time in Chile, we spent the most beautiful nine days in Rapa Nui. If this is somewhere you’re thinking about visiting, book longer than nine days because we did NOT want to leave! The locals were truly the hosts with the mostest. They’re an incredibly resilient people, and being there felt so familiar. Imagine Ruatoria, but on an island five hours out to sea in the middle of nowhere lol.

One thing I really admired was that everyone seemed to know how to do everything. They’re a small island, so if they don’t get the mahi done, no one else will. They’re hardworking, resourceful, and almost everyone has some kind of art they use to express themselves. Nearly every man we met could play the guitar or ukulele, and if they couldn’t do either of those, they could definitely sing or dance.

Their kids reminded us so much of our own tamariki too. When they were practising karikari, which is their version of performing arts, their faces looked like they would rather be anywhere else 😂 Even on the other side of the world, kids are still sick to death of practising culture when the adults tell them to lol.

But one of the most humbling parts of the whole trip was seeing how much our presence affected some of their tamariki, both in Rapa Nui and among the Mapuche. Seeing us there, being unapologetically Māori and proud uri of Ngāti Porou, inspired some of them to feel the same way about who they are.

When you’re surrounded by systems that are intimidated by the knowledge and power of Indigenous people, it’s easy to absorb the lies those systems tell about us, especially when you’re young and impressionable. Just like our own kaumātua, their elders carried on teaching even when the kids didn’t want to listen. Then, as adults, those same kids grow up grateful that someone protected the culture long enough for them to return to it.

There’s nothing quite like your Indigenous identity to reconnect you when the whole modern world seems designed to distract you from who you are.

Another beautiful thing about Rapa Nui was their dedication to teaching future generations their traditions. One of the reasons I hardly posted while I was there is because internet and phone service truly are a luxury. Our host told us they only really started using reliable internet once Starlink arrived, which honestly explains why everyone is so bloody talented 😂

You don’t see kids there glued to technology. Their spare time is spent outside, swimming, carving, playing music, learning their language and keeping their customs alive.

My children hardly use technology at home and don’t get much screen time, but I’ll admit they’re still very accustomed to, “It’s raining, so we can watch TV.” Being with the people of Rapa Nui made me realise I need to make a more conscious effort to let my kids play in the damn rain. Give them a guitar. Teach them to carve. Let them create. Let them be bored enough to discover what they’re capable of instead of wasting the day in front of a screen.

The whole trip taught me something else too: Aotearoa really is it. We have so many opportunities here that some of the people we met could only dream about. Exchange trips, education, resources, funding, language revitalisation programmes—for some people, those opportunities feel completely out of reach.

My whole life I’ve been told I’m a dreamer, and after this trip, I totally agree 😂 I have big dreams of Māori being at the forefront of change and healing in this country, while also creating a model that other Indigenous communities can adapt to support their own revitalisation efforts. Imagine if the mahi we're doing here in Aotearoa could inspire and strengthen Indigenous communities around the world, just as they have inspired us.
Whether we like it or not, we share this whenua with people whose ideas for a “better future” often completely sideline the fact that we need our environment—our taiao—to have any kind of future at all.

My big dream is to see Māori leading the healing of our communities, Māori and Pākehā alike. I believe the state of our environment is a direct reflection of the health of our people and communities.

We can do all the taiao and kaitiakitanga mahi we like, but if we want real, tangible change, everyone on this waka needs to be paddling in the same direction. I truly believe Indigenous people can help lead that way forward.

Do I have all the answers? Absolutely not 😂 But there’s a reason one way of speaking about history is “ngā rā o mua”—the days in front of us. We look back to understand where we’ve come from, so we can see more clearly where we’re going. History teaches us what not to repeat, and our old people left us more than stories. They left us maps.

Anyway, in true Turu fashion, I’ve gone way off topic 😂 The main point was: Rapa Nui was beautiful, we didn’t want to leave, I’ve got thousands of photos coming, and this trip has changed the way I see our future!

Tihei Mauri ora!!

Ngati Porou ki Rapa Nui!
02/07/2026

Ngati Porou ki Rapa Nui!

One of the most interesting parts of this haerenga has been hearing the different ways people think about governance.Whe...
28/06/2026

One of the most interesting parts of this haerenga has been hearing the different ways people think about governance.

When we visited the New Zealand Embassy here in Chile, one of the people we met said something that's been stuck in my head ever since. She said, "We can only do so much from the bottom, and a lot of the decisions come from the top."

I've been sitting with that whakaaro for days, and I've come to the conclusion that I respectfully disagree.

If you think about a building, it doesn't start at the top. It starts with the foundation. In fact, the foundation has to be the strongest part of the whole structure, because everything above it depends on it. If the foundation is weak, eventually the whole thing becomes unstable.

Our ancestors understood this. They built strong foundations for us with the knowledge, resources and challenges they had in their time. They didn't build perfection, but they built something strong enough that we're still standing on it today.

Now it's our turn.

We live in a different time, and with that comes the opportunity to strengthen the foundations even further. If leadership at the top isn't what we'd hoped for, maybe that's not just a leadership problem. Maybe it's an invitation for us to look at the foundations we're building underneath it.

Communities. Whānau. Relationships. Food systems. Education. Culture. These are all foundations.

The stronger they become, the stronger everything built on top of them has to become too.

That doesn't mean we all have to agree. In fact, I think different opinions and different strategies are healthy. Diversity of thought is part of building something resilient. I don't have to agree with you to respect you, and I certainly don't expect everyone to agree with me.

But I wonder if we could all agree on one thing.

The foundations need work.

And the beautiful thing about foundations is that they aren't built by politicians. They're built by ordinary people, in ordinary communities, making ordinary decisions every single day.

Maybe we've been looking up for answers, when all along the greatest strength has been beneath our feet.

It's time we reclaimed our tools and got building.

The Mapuche people have had such a profound impact on me that I decided to ink a piece of that journey onto my skin, so ...
28/06/2026

The Mapuche people have had such a profound impact on me that I decided to ink a piece of that journey onto my skin, so that every time I look at it, I'll remember what I've learnt here long after I've returned home.

This design was suggested to me by some of my friends from the Lafkenche community. It's inspired by Lautaro, a young Mapuche leader who became one of the greatest symbols of resistance for his people. After being captured by the Spanish as a boy, he escaped, returned to his people, and led the fight to defend their land, culture and identity. Even today his story continues to inspire the Mapuche people.

For me, this is about carrying the lessons they've shared with me.

This Lautaro design is my reminder to stay strong when life gets hard. To always choose love over bitterness, humility over ego, and to keep showing up for my community, even when the road isn't easy.

To my Mapuche whānau - thank you for trusting us with your stories, your culture and your aroha. I'll carry a piece of you with me wherever I go. ❤️

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