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15/12/2025

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15/12/2025

So one time I fell seriously sick and didn't go to work. It was the first time I would be purposely staying back at home and not going to work on a working day. I had taken medications hoping it would help, but it didn't.

My son Noble walked into my room that morning and discovered how feverish I was. He was worried. He asked me what the problem was and I told him.

"I am sick Noble. I have a fever."

He had never seen me in that way before.

"Mummy let us go to the hospital. This is serious."

I told him I would go to the hospital first thing the next morning.

That night I noticed Noble kept coming to my room and opening the door to look inside. And each time he came, my eyes were open.

Until I drifted to sleep.

Suddenly I heard him shouting and shaking me.

"Mummy, please get up."

I opened my eyes.

I found his eyes red. He had been crying.

"What is the problem?" I asked.

He wiped his nose..

"I have been calling you since. I have been tapping you. I thought you had d!ed."

I became emotional.

I held him close.

"I am alive, I just slept deeply."

That night Noble slept on my chest.

It was at that moment that I realized how much I meant to my son and how much it would hurt him if he lost me.

I prayed that night and told God to give me a long life.

This message is for every mother and woman out there. The devil will not take your life prematurely.

You shall not leave your children behind. You shall leave long enough to see them grow old and have grandchildren.

15/12/2025

MARRIED MEN...✍🏾

A Very Beautiful Wife in her late 30s walked into my office some weeks ago dejected, looking for help. Her problem, her Husband of more than 10 years, the Father of her 3 Children abandoned her a d ran away with a 62 years old retiree who was his Business Partner.

Few days later another Woman came whose Husband impregnated her best friend who was Chief bride made in her Wedding. Just few days ago a Woman also came this time with her husband, he was caught sleeping with the Housemaid.

Hearing these stories and many more of them compelled me to write this piece because I discover lots of Married Men are carelessly breaking S*xual rules and Marriage ethics putting themselves in ugly situations, scandalizing themselves, destroying beautiful lives hurting beautiful Homes.

1. Never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, Wives of Friends.

2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife.

3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies

4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow.

5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life.

6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife, this will safe your head in future.

7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners

8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady, there is nothing they have that your wife does not have even better with security.

9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart.

10. Put on your Wedding ring always

11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't tolerate anyone to dress s*xily around you, if they see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you.

12. If any lady is giving you signs for s*x, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly

13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity.

14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be totally open this safe your head.

15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet.

16. Celebrate your wife birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere, this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and not available for them.

17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married.

18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted

19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away.

20, Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one, never speak negatively about her or other Women.

21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor

22. Cut all contacts with all your Exes and all you’ve had S*x with before Marriage if you don't do you may fall back together again destroying your Marriage and theirs.

23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere.

24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details.

25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move

26. Always remember that the enjoyment that is just 8 Seconds, it can not be more than that but its répercussion can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of or**sm.

27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages s*xual immorality if you truly want to be faithful avoid night Parties.

28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol you look your sense of decency with Women, please avoid Alcohol.

29. Remember s*xually transmitted diseases. It's true that s*xually transmitted is possible when you don't keep to your Wife, don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure.

30. Don't Think CONDOM use Good CONDUCT: Condom can break, it can not even protect you from the scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God, good conduct is what you need, not Condom.

31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, be a promise keeper, remember your Vow.

32. Avoid night Clubs: Night Clubs is not for Men that want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it.

33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it.

34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly, don't do it, it's not a show of love, do that through a handshake, hug only your wife.

35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulder when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts, Shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love, only your wife deserves that.

36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife, eating together generate love and feelings, don't start the fire that will consume you.

37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car ride with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down.

38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady.

39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about

40. No P**n: P**nography can never satisfy you, but will destroy your ability to resist S*xual temptation and turn to your dirty secret and your addiction, keeping you busy without taking you to anywhere.

41. No code on Phone: Don't put code on your phone to hide it from your wife, if there must be code, your wife must know it if you are a real and faithful man.

42. If you must think s*xy think your wife, avoid Lust and inordinate affection.

43. If you must look at breast look at your wife’s. She is having the best breast in the world.

44. If you must look at Bum your wife has it in abundance. Stop looking at the backside of any Lady, you much than that.

45. Have an accountability Partner: Have somebody you can talk to if you feel tempted

46. Be careful with your Wife’s Friends, some of them want you, don't get too close, don't get too familiar, respect yourself.

47. Beware of your Wife’s House Maid, DONT SLEEP WITH HER!! Don't tolerate s*xy dress from her, no tying of towel around the house, no sleeping carelessly in the living room. If she is getting too hot for you let her go don't pretend, tell your wife.

48. Don't have any Lady’s Number on your phone that your wife does not know who she is

49. Stop Counselling Vulnerable Women about their Marriage or S*x life, you are not a Counsellor, you are not trained for that, you may put yourself in trouble.

50. If you want s*x, go back home, get it from your wife.

51. Enjoy hugging your Wife, hold her hands play with her, be very close to her to keep your mind from straying.

52. Increase SDA in your Marriage: SDA is Secret Display of Affection, use every opportunity to display affection to Your Wife in the secret when it's between just two of you.

53. Increase FDA in your Marriage: FDA is Family Display Affection. Show love generously to your wife in the presence of your Children, Housemaid and People that live in your house, this will strengthen your Marriage.

54. Increase PDA in your Marriage: PDA is Public Display of Affection, display affection public don't be ashamed of your wife.

55. Date your Wife Regularly: Create time to go out with your Wife on a date, set time for it and grow together.

56. Break unbreakable Bond with your Wife.

57. Don't just be a Husband be a Lover Boy

58. Always count the Cost of Adultery: Lots of Men do look at the pleasure of illicit s*x without counting the cost. Count the cost, this is much, S*xually transmitted diseases, Scandals, unwanted Baby, disappointments, satanic affliction, the judgement of God and lots. Count the cost, it's much, very much, outweighs 8 seconds of pleasure.

59. Be careful about your secretary and your Collègue at Work, they are not better than your wife, your wife is by far better than them, don't get too close to them, don't destroy your Marriage.

60. You want a better Bedroom? You want better S*x, you can get it in your Marriage.

(Please share this on your platforms to reach all Married Men.)

God bless you ❣️

13/12/2025

Be careful and security cautious ⚠️ the days are evil

13/12/2025

06/12/2025

I have four brothers who all live in America, and I am the only girl in the family.
When our mother passed away, I was the one who handled every single detail of the burial.

After the funeral, my husband insisted that we must return to Lagos that same day.
I begged him to allow me stay a little longer so I could settle all the outstanding payments for the burial—caterers, musicians, and other services my brothers didn’t really know about.

But he said to me, “If you don’t follow me now, don’t bother coming back.”

I honestly thought he was joking. I even held his hands and told him,
“I’ll come home. My brothers will bless me before they travel, and I’ll bring everything to you.”
I smiled and told him I loved him, believing everything was fine.

But once he left, he refused to answer my calls.
My children said, “Daddy doesn’t want to pick.”
I sent messages and pictures on WhatsApp… no response.

Two weeks later, after my brothers returned abroad, I came back to Lagos.
My children ran to me shouting “Mummy welcome!”
But my husband walked out and said,
“Didn’t I tell you not to come back?”

Before I could say a word, he slapped me and started beating me.
My heart broke because I had kept all the money my brothers gave me—about 8 million—safe for him.

I called my brothers to talk to him, but he told them he no longer wanted the marriage and even threatened my life.
My brothers advised me to stay in a hotel, and a month later, they arranged my visa.
I left Nigeria, leaving my five children behind.

Two months after I left, I heard he had married another woman.
I cried because all the money my brothers sent over the years, including proceeds from several cars they shipped, he sold everything and never gave me a single naira. But I forgave him because I thought he loved me.

He blocked my number and changed my children’s contacts.
Four years have passed, and I’ve lived alone.
Another man has now approached my brothers wanting to marry me, but I’ve been scared to accept because my husband was my first, and I have not been with any other man since.

Then suddenly, his family—who never contacted me for four years—called.
They said he had an accident, lost his eyesight, and the new wife ran away.
Now they want me to forgive him and return to take care of him and the children.

My mind is heavy and confused.
What should I do?

16/11/2025

10 WAYS TO AVOID FINANCIAL CHALLENGE IN MARRIAGE.

Samuel Olagbenjo

Every marriage needs money to thrive! Rent must be paid, bills must be settled, school fees are there, you must wear good clothes and eat a balanced diet.

In fact, financial problems are one of the biggest problems facing marriages today. Lack of finance has caused havoc to families and separated many lovers.

THE FOLLOWING ARE THE WAYS TO AVOID FIGHTING OVER MONEY IN MARRIAGE

1. Have A Regular Income Before you go into marriage

It is unreasonable to go into marriage without a stable source of income.

Marriage is not an emergency so don’t rush into it. Get a job before you get married. Because People may sponsor your WEDDING but nobody will sponsor your MARRIAGE. Love is powerful but it won’t pay your house rent, hospital bill, or your children's school fees. So get a job to sustain your marriage. Marriage is a responsibility. There is no true romance without finance in marriage. Financial hardship or poverty can destroy love. So get a stable source of income before getting married.

Make sure you and your intending spouse have a source of income before planning your wedding. A reliable source of income is a must if you don’t want to suffer in marriage. That’s wisdom.

2. Learn How To Give before going relationship/marriage!

You Are Not A True Lover If You Are Not A Generous Giver Because The Proof Of Love Is GIVING! Before you get married, you must destroy every spirit of stinginess, greediness, and selfishness because they are major enemies of marriage. Marriage is not for those who are not givers.

Learning How To Give Is One Of The Preparation You Must Make Before Marriage Because Marriage Is All Giving 100% to your spouse. So Both Single Guys & Ladies Should Learn How To Give. Marriage is between two people who love each other and are willing to be a blessing to each other. They are not stingy to each other. Beware of someone who is not ready to contribute to your life but only interested in receiving.

3. NEVER KEEP FINANCIAL SECRET FROM YOUR SPOUSE:

BE 100 % Open about money in marriage. Never hide anything from your spouse. Talk about your money together and be flexible about your money. There must be 100% openness and transparency about finance. No secret account. No secret property. What God has joined together, let no secret put asunder

Genesis 2:24 says: And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

As husband and wife, you need to be spiritually, emotionally, s*xually, financially, and physically naked to each other. You must be Open and transparent

Your spouse should know your phone, email, and bank account password. Be free to have access to your phone. Don’t hide anything from your spouse. That’s marriage

4. NEVER SEE YOUR MONEY AS YOUR MONEY BUT SEE AS OUR MONEY

For you to go far in marriage, you must not have this mentality that “my money” is my money while my husband's money is our money. You must know that any money you make in marriage either by the wife or husband belongs to the family. There is nowhere in the bible that commands only the husband to provide for the family.

MARRIAGE IS A TEAMWORK. MARRIAGE IS A PARTNERSHIP. So both of you should use your money to run the family. Put your resources together to run your family. Two are better than one because they have a better result for their labor. Work as a team.

You see, one of the reasons many men go into depression is because of financial pressure/loads. He wants to pay house rent, children's school fees, feeding of the family, medical bills, electricity bills, security bills, clothes for the children, generator fuel and repairs, car fuel and repair, his wife's financial needs, parent monthly bills, etc., for example, his monthly bills is 2 million naira but his salary is only N500,000. It is not right for a woman to watch her husband go through financial stress without any support. If you don’t want to lose that man, support him 100/%

Marriage is a partnership. So both husband and wife should provide for their home. Marriage is a teamwork. It is a covenant. If both parties are willing to be covenant-minded and put the principles of God above all, then they can enjoy a good marriage.

Once you are married, you are now one. It is now “our money”, not “my money”. It is Our car, our children, our property. So both of you should put your resources together to run your family. Two are better than one because they have a better result for their labor. Work as a team.

You must know that anything you have before marriage belongs to both of you in marriage.

Your money becomes our money

Your cars become our cars

Your house becomes our house

Your children become our children

5. AS A MARRIED COUPLE, NEVER COMPARE YOUR FAMILY WITH ANY FAMILIES WHO ARE FINANCIALLY DOING WELL THAN YOU. Be content with what you have. If you must have peace of mind in your marriage, you must be content with what you have. Enjoy the little you have while you work hard for more. Don’t envy other families. Celebrate the level you are now as you believe in God for the next level.

6. DON'T LIVE IN A HOUSE YOU STRUGGLE TO PAY THE RENT EVERY YEAR.
Make sure you rent a house you can pay for the rent without borrowing. Start with what you have. I and my wife started with a room and parlor self-contained but today, we have passed the level. Remember there are other bills like transport bills, electricity bills, medical bills, etc. Don’t rent a house in an environment you can’t afford. There is no need to try to impress anybody when you know you don’t have the capacity. Be yourself. Start with what you have. Never try to impress anybody. Some use their 7 months' salaries to pay rent just to impress people. That’s foolishness. Instead of paying millions of naira for rent, why can’t you plan and save to buy your own land and build your house?

7. AVOID TOO MANY RESPONSIBILITIES.
Only Give birth to the number of children you can adequately cater for. Some married couples are giving birth to children every year. Their income is not increasing but their responsibilities are increasing by the day. There is no way you can make financial progress in these kinds of homes. Plan your family size. Large families are not advisable today.

As a couple, you must not be afraid of rejecting “heavy load” or heavy responsibility from your extended family, if they suggest that their children should live with you. If you know that you don’t have the financial capacity, never accept extra responsibility. This is not a lack of faith. It is wisdom

8. NEVER PUT YOUR CHILDREN IN A SCHOOL YOU CANNOT AFFORD. Because expensive school does not guarantee a brighter future. It does not make sense if you have to struggle or borrow money to pay their school fees. Make sure your children attend a good affordable school.


9. NEVER DEPEND ON ONE SOURCE OF INCOME: Create multiple streams of income. Multiple streams of income simply mean many sources of income. Don’t depend on one business or salary. Your money must never come from one source. It is better for N5000 to be coming from five sources than for N10,000 to be coming from one source. Invest your money in profitable businesses. Your income must grow as your family is growing. Sit down, think, and plan with your spouse on how to generate more income to cater to the needs of your family.

10. TAKE YOUR FINANCIAL NEED TO GOD IN PRAYERS.
Instead of fighting, take every financial need to God in prayers. Pray about your finances. Trust God for your finances. Pray that God will give you ideas that will change your financial life. God can release ideas into your mind that will change your life forever.

So instead of you fighting and quarreling over your financial needs, go to God in prayers. All will be well

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

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16/11/2025

SOME COMMON MISTAKES SINGLE LADIES MAKE.

Ladies today fall in love for various reasons due to ignorance and uncontrolled Emotion and this has caused a lot of broken relationships and heartbreak.

With Knowledge, you can guard your heart so take note of the following errors some single ladies make and learn not to make them.

1. Living fake life to get a man's attention. Whatever you use to catch a man, you'll also use to sustain that relationship.
If you use your b***s, hips, shape or your s*xual prowess to catch him, think if it's sustainable.
A man needs a woman that will stimulate his intelligence, i mean man and not a f**k boy so attract him with your brain.

2. Comparing yourself with other ladies.
Most ladies lack self confidence because they always compare their physical attributes with another. That's absurd.
What one person calls beauty is quite different from what another sees as beauty.
There is someone who will appreciate your b***s size, your butts just the way it is if you are intellectually sound.
You mustn't be like someone else.

3. Don't harass a man into marrying you.
Some ladies love wedding more than the relationship or the longevity of Marriage.
Their aim is just to wear a wedding gown for people to see with no knowledge about marriage. That's a time bomb.
Allow love to take it's process, move with the flow. Don't be a Desperado.

4. Give a Chance to people you think are not your spec. Some ladies have fantasized their dream man in their head.
He should be tall, handsome, rich, beardgang, etc. Such fantasies has led so many ladies astray.
Always note that Diamonds are dirt before they were refined.

5. Don't stop living because you are waiting for someone. Some ladies have paused their life because of someone's son.
Always ask yourself this, if there were no Marriage, what would I be doing with my life? Don't be stuck, don't stagnate yourself.
Live your life until someone who is ready comes.

Conclusively, it is a myth of statistics that women are more than men.
You don't have to be in a panic mode.
Equip yourself, be the best version of you.
Seek knowledge, stimulate your intelligence.
Become a person of Value and you can never be ignored.

Date right. Ask the right questions.

DEAR SINGLE LADIES, DO NOT LIVE YOUR LIFE CASUALLY, ELSE YOU MIGHT END UP A CASUALTY.

Be Intentional and Purposeful.

Mr Right is on his way but you ought to be MISS RIGHT TOO.

Watch and Pray.

09/11/2025

The divine is not human.

08/06/2025