06/10/2026
Ok yes I also garden. But I often think the reason I don’t give up on my garden (especially over summer) is because of pottering.
Pottering is low stakes. Zero expectations. Pottering is going outside for a cuppa and suddenly finding yourself deadheading a daisy bush. It’s low pressure gardening because you’re not actually setting out to ‘garden’ - you don’t need to achieve anything. You’re just…pottering.
Sometimes I think these may be some of the most peaceful and pleasurable moments of my life (especially when I can convince my husband and our kids to potter with me!)
If you’re sick of your garden at the moment, if it feels like too much work, too much struggle, may I suggest you give up gardening for a few months, and allow yourself to potter instead.
Here’s how to do it:
1. Make a cup of tea/coffee, pour yourself a b**r or a glass of w**e
2. Head outside.
3. Aimlessly wander. Look for bugs. Breathe. Wait.
4. Wait for it to come to you - the desire to do SOMETHING. It doesn’t matter what it is. Don’t rush it, it will arrive on its own. It ALWAYS does.
Watch the birds flit through the trees, and maybe you’ll find yourself filling up the bird bath.
Smell a rose and you’ll probably blink and find yourself picking a posy
Stare at your pots for long enough and you’ll end up rearranging them, watering them, tending to them.
There are no rules for pottering, and, if your gardening motivation has deserted, I also find it happens to be the quickest, easiest and most pleasurable way to wind up accidentally knee deep in soil, with twigs in my hair, (re)landscaping a garden bed, uprooting a tree and gleefully gardening once more!
If that sounds like your kind of gardening, I’m writing a book on exactly how to do it (and how to succeed in a sandy, dry and rugged place like Perth).
I’m publishing draft excerpts to my Substack newsletter as I go, so you can read along too ☺️ comment SUBSTACK if you’d like to check them out! ❤️