09/29/2026
Pretty proud of this kid. All summer long he’s been trying to keep our shop organized as we were in the midst of finishing our own home renovation and we continued to bring things in and out and drop them on the go. We never asked him to do it, he just loves to organize. His brothers would be out playing and he’d be in there working away. He was finally able to get ahead of us and has it looking brand new as of tonight!!
He also helped me get our “grandma railing” up on our garage steps this weekend (We added the railing to make sure the grandmas don’t fall off!) and then asked if I’d let him paint it. I’m kind of a perfectionist, but I’m getting better at letting him do things where it makes sense. I figured the garage railing doesn’t really have to be perfect. He has done all the prep work….sanding, filling holes, putting the blankets down, getting setup. And now he’s on his second coat of paint. I’m coaching him along the way and showing him how to get the nooks and crannies and how to avoid drips. It’s not perfect, but he’s taking pride in it and he couldn’t finish his dinner fast enough to get back out there and keep going.
My parents have always said I was the same way when we did our home projects. Urging my dad to keep working with me because I wasn’t done yet even though he had already worked a 12 hour day before. Or stuffing food in my face so I could get back out and keep going. Tonight was the first night I was sitting inside with my son out there doing a project without me. Kinda funny!
Sometimes the Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree! He’s our oldest and certainly the most like me. He has many of my good traits, and some of my less favorable as well. I can see where he will find success and I can see his personal challenges as well as I faced many of the same. Now I know why I was so exhausting for my parents!! So many questions, non stop curiosity, and the drive to keep going. Sometimes it’s hard to recognize that he’s not trying to wear you out, he just has a hunger for knowledge and he loves knowing what I do. “Dad, what projects are you working on today? What contractors did you talk to today? Can I use those boards in the shop? Are you going to use that tool or can I have it since you already have like 5 of them?” - my recent favorite question!
Like me, he gets bored in class and likes to chatter. Nicole has done a nice job working with him on it and checking in on it and you can tell he’s being mindful of it and trying to do better. We always tell our kids, if you’re going to do something, do your best and do it well. Whether that’s painting a railing or working on improving your behavior. He’s been working hard and we’re really proud of him!!