Angels for Alayne

Angels for Alayne Angels 4 Alayne is a page dedicated to a young lady who has been battling a number of complex and life threatening medical issues since 2010. She battles daily.

Alayne Drowley was born on the 17th of May 1999; a healthy, happy, normal baby. However, around the time of her second birthday she endured her first encounter with the medical world. Alayne battled Salmonella Septicaemia undiagnosed in Bega hospital for a week. Although she recovered medically following this ordeal, once we returned home she stopped talking and began to withdraw socially. After m

onths of follow ups with her paediatrician who labelled this as trauma she was later diagnosed with “Persuasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified.” It had become clear that Alayne had suffered lifelong damage and was later diagnosed with “Atypical Autism”. Over following years our entire family became actively involved as therapists with Alayne through an ABA (Applied Behavioural Analysis) program and PECS (Picture Exchange Communication System). Our hard work eventually paid off, granting Alayne with a form of communication and a quality of life she would not otherwise have had. She remained a healthy and happy child. In June 2010 Alayne became unwell for the first time since she was two. After endless visits to the Bega Hospital emergency department and often lengthy hospital admissions we continued to be told by health professionals that she was simply being a ‘naughty special needs child’ and that her symptoms, which often left her in agony and tears for days on end, were simply ‘behavioural’. Alayne later spent from October 2010 to February 2011 in Westmead Children’s hospital where she continually vomited and lost almost 20kg. By December 2010 Alayne had become so unwell and malnourished that her first surgery occurred; a Laparotomy to repair issues with her duodenum & intestines. Alayne continued to be hospitalised for - 61 admissions between 2011 & April 2017. . Some admissions were for weeks, others months, the longest was 411 days. During her last admission in Paediatrics when she was septic again Doctors finally performed a colonoscopy that showed her bowel was necrotic, collapsed & was adhered to her organs. What followed was a 12 hour surgery to remove her large bowel & 3 months recovery in hospital. Alayne then transferred to adult care at RPA in Sydney in the Intestinal Failure Ward / Clinic. Finally she has the best care & support for her medical needs. Alayne's condition means she cannot absorb any nutrition or fluids via her stomach or intestines. She simply cannot be kept alive without Home Parental Nutrition which is administered via a central line in her chest to her heart / blood system. Parental nutrition is run for at least 16 hours every day, along with fluids and medications .All Alayne's nutrition, fluids and medications are intravenous. Anything we offer her orally is for fun, taste, socialisation and is drained from her stomach so that she does not become unwell. As well as SBS- Intestinal Failure, Alayne suffers from Epilepsy, Autonomic Dysfunction, Acute/chronic Pancreatitis, scoliosis, bilateral Plano valgus feet which are deteriorating. Through all that Alayne has been through & continues to live with she is the most beautiful soul that you will ever meet. Her smile will melt you. She works daily with her family & disability support workers to keep motility and has learnt to communicate using Alternative Access PODD. She is witty, clever, social, caring. She loves art, cooking, music, the beach, animals, reading and shopping. Thank you for your love, care and support,

The Drowley Family.

Whilst sitting here with Miss Alayne, waiting to hopefully got to theatre tomorrow, there not a lot to keep her entertai...
23/06/2026

Whilst sitting here with Miss Alayne, waiting to hopefully got to theatre tomorrow, there not a lot to keep her entertained. So we’ve made a collage of some happy pictures depicting what a beautiful life she has.
Alayne has a great network supporting her. Not only family but her home Nurses & Support workers.
What a great team that keep her happy, well & are constantly working to improve her communication skills through a system called PODD. Alayne uses both a paper book system as well as an independent technology eye gaze system .
Alayne has choice & control in her life. She can select her clothes, choose activities & where outings are etc. She can also tell you to ”Buzz Off” & shut a conversation down. She is funny, smart, emotional & caring.
The photos show Alayne out & about,big brother Rowan’s Wedding to Madi last year (Alayne was in hospital & allowed a couple hours pass to attend), time chilling with the puppies & out in the bush with our chickens…. Hope you enjoy x

Alayne's so much better today. No temperatures, good bp's & redness & swelling on arm has gone down. She is still on Cef...
21/06/2026

Alayne's so much better today. No temperatures, good bp's & redness & swelling on arm has gone down. She is still on Cefepine antibiotics so if PICC infection would be covered..
Just need to get to Wednesday when new Central line is scheduled (& hopefully not bumped from theatre) then we can plan for home.
Thanks for all the love xx

Alayne did get a PICC line yesterday afternoon and TPN has been reintroduced at a slow rate. She had a good afternoon po...
19/06/2026

Alayne did get a PICC line yesterday afternoon and TPN has been reintroduced at a slow rate. She had a good afternoon post insertion but a not so good night. She hasn’t slept a minute all night. Teeth grinding &very agitated - put together tells us something is wrong.

Now Alayne’s temperature is rising, BP all over the place so we are about to do full septic screen.
Hopefully it’s nothing, better to be safe the sorry.

Struggling to find words.. we are just broken. Alayne waited all day yesterday to go to theatre for new Central Line. To...
18/06/2026

Struggling to find words.. we are just broken. Alayne waited all day yesterday to go to theatre for new Central Line. Told 2nd on list, then 11am then nothing, until 5.30pm. Hospital bumped her from theatre list and she won't be on today's either.
Waiting for another PICC line today (hopefully)
& on theatre list for next Wednesday.
As photo shows she has nothing left. 3 days TPN in 15 days, no bloods in 4 days as her veins have collapsed.. I'm shattered watching her fall apart x

Just an update for Alayne's family, friends, and supporters.... On Thursday 11th June 2026 she had the infected Central ...
15/06/2026

Just an update for Alayne's family, friends, and supporters....

On Thursday 11th June 2026 she had the infected Central Line removed, and a PICC line placed in her left arm. TPN ran at a slower pace than her usual intake for 3 days. We were hpoeful that all would continue the right way.

Unfortunately, the PICC line fell out last night and we were told today another PICC won’t be placed. She will go to theatre for a new central line on Wednesday. Luckily, Trevor just happened to bump into her surgeon outside the hospital, gave an update & he has placed her on his theatre list for this Wednesday.

Doctors managed to get one cannula in her right arm last night to run her essential epilepsy medications and the antibiotics but it was difficult. Today there have been numerous failed attempts to get blood. Her body is not coping. 3 out of 12 day / nights of nutrition is just not enough for anybody.

Alayne will be here longer than we anticipated as starting the TPN will be dangerous due to refeeding syndrome- it will have to be a slow process...

As always Alayne is coping. She is a bit over being in bed and bored with watching movies but continues to be cheeky & smile with the staff, especially any good-looking dark head doctors ###

Where to start...Alot has happened this year but I tend to keep it quiet. I prefer to post pictures of my girl happy & w...
11/06/2026

Where to start...
Alot has happened this year but I tend to keep it quiet. I prefer to post pictures of my girl happy & well & not look at set backs. Just an example for 2026 - Encephalitis 5 weeks in February, surgery for sub public catheter in May & ongoing uti infections, movement disorder "parkinsonism" diagnosis etc
Today Thursday 11th June 2026 - Alayne is currently in RPA in Sydney. Arrived on Tuesday night after taking her to South East Regional Hospital, Bega on Thursday 4th June 2026 @ 6pm, as she clearly had a site infection at the central line. Was inflamed, leaking pus with a swollen absess. I knew as soon as we arrived at SERH it was going to be a complicated stay. Aside from an impending long weekend, no nurse approved to take cultures from a central line in ED, antibiotics started prior cvl cultures. The idea of best practice for a long term central line patient was not followed.
By Sunday wrong diagnosis of specimen in central line infection was reported to RPA. Told to restart tpn via her line. RPA told line cultures clear & site/ tunnel infection was just staphylococcus. On getting to hospital I got them to check culture results. Yes she had staphylococcus but was a different test on different day on different body part.
When I looked on screen the the chest swab result lit up in red "positive Serratia Marcescens bacteria".
It then took alot of advocacy almost tears to get a doctor to review Alayne. Her cannula access had failed again, so she wasn't hydrated, wasn't getting her epilepsy medications & was on wrong antibiotic.
By Tuesday we were to fly out Merimbula to RPA then got bumped. Alayne had been without TPN for 5 days.
Again stern advocacy & some phone calls by 4pm we were on our way to the airport.
It's now Thursday 11/6/26 & finally some sensible plans have been made, not without some stressful times & conversation. Alayne's central line will be taken out & a PICC line placed to temporarily get some TPN & meds & hydration. Then the antibiotics will clear the infection before a new Central line is placed in theatre, hopefully later next week.

One of the most important updates has been meeting a new Genetic Doctor during her admission for Encephalitis at RPA.
During her care under paediatric hospital in Sydney, Alayne had numerous Genetic tests sent to Melbourne & London. Nothing came back.
RPA sent off new samples to Melbourne in the hope that something will come up. On 20th May the Dr made contact & we now have a genetic confirmation. Not a guess or maybe but definitive answer for our baby girls medical & developmental issues.
The results "Genetic diagnosis of Phelan-McDermid syndrome PATHOGENIC variant in the SHANK3 gene".
Why does this help? We now have clear medical guidelines to help with Alayne's ongoing care. It also is not recessive so my other children can go make babies with no worry about could this happen again.
I could type all day about PMS shank3 but that's for next time..

Happy 27th Birthday Alayne 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈
17/05/2026

Happy 27th Birthday Alayne 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈

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